Wrapped around my finger

Taking care of an aging parent can be a tiresome job especially if the parent didn't like you. my brother has this thankless job my dad made it clear early on that only one his sons was special to him now that son now disabled and my dad are being cared for the one person they seemed to hated the most they made my brothers life a living hell sibling abuse is hardly ever mentioned but it happens ususaly under the disguise of roughhousing or what ever but for a parent to stand by and watch a child beat and choke a much younger sibling is abuse plain and simple this would happen whenever my mom was at work which was all the time since she basically supported the family but the years when by and my brother dealt with all the issues in his life and came out strong now my dad and his favorite has to depend on my brother to live a decent life they live in his house and more or less live by his rules i think that they should thank god that he is not the type of person that they were

quinn the eskimo

ilike music and if you noticed i sometimes use lyric from songs to title my blogs its because you can say a lot with only a few words of course this only works if the people you are communicating with knows the rest of the song this blog would have been about crackheads because know you that quinn had to have been a coke dealer if it was about politics i would have used pink floyd or public enemy if it was about the situation in iraq i would use don henleys all she want to do is dance. william congreve said "Music hath charms to soothe a savage breast, To soften rocks, or bend a knotted oak".it can be used to tell a story express an idea or sell a car well i am not selling any cars but i have a lot of ideas to express some you wont like and others that,ll make you go hmmm. and yes it is about that because why would the pigeons run to quinn real pigeons fly.yes kiddies quinn is the snowman

noisy bird

theres a mockingbird on my street to be precise its perch is an electric post right in front of my house to a lot of people this is a good thing its repetoire of songs range from the sublime to the sweet but this bird is one rude neighbor it has no concept of time so at three oclock in the night its sweet songs are more like fingernails on a blackboard i dont want to know what a cardinal or meadowlark sounds like at three in the morning i want quiet this goes on all summer i have contiplated buying a pellet gun and learn to shoot or a slingshot the cats around here kill a lot of birds but they never seem to get any mockingbirds they are like wiley coyote and he,s like the roadrunner well it could be worse he learn scat or rap if that bird start useing the b_word or the n_word then i,ll get a real weapon and lock and load on him.birds are nice but tweet tweet at three am uh uh

thats life

thats what all the people say. thats how the song goes. for awhile every thing seems to come up roses then bam youre wondering what the hell happened but a lot events in your life have their roots in something that happen earlier in your life you might have been too busy to notice or thought of something as unimportant at the moment so while you are injoying yourself that loose thread is unraveling into a big hole so you,re down trying to fix a little problem that seemed to have become a big problem overnight its hard to cover all the loose ends so you are caught in this yin/yang of life the good the bad ,the happiness,the sadness,.the sweet the sour. this can be very frustrating to some people so they either become very religious or alcoholics they say times are bad but____(put diety here)will see me through.or they say i drink to forget the pain. the best thing to do is to buckup be brave and push on because life is not without problems and before you know it you,ll be back on top in june

fool on the hill

a messenger came to a man one day and said to him that one day the waters in the village well wound change and make all the people mad. the man went among the villagers and told them what he had heard the people mocked him and said our people have been drinking water from this well for generations you must be mad he thought about it and decided that he would take some water from the well before it was changed and go live live on an mountain and wait until the waters changed. this is what he did. he stayed there until the waters changed then went down to the village the people were acting strange to him they seemed deranged but when he talked to them they would ask why are you so strange why are you talking and acting so crazy. so the man went back to his mountain but after a time he began to feel lonely so he went back down to the village and drank some of the water from the well and he began to act just like the people of the village when he went to talk to the people they said thank god your are cured before we could not understand you. you were acting very strange. i wrote this from memory but believe i got the basic story right it can be applied to a lot of events that has been happening lately. dont drink the water

mothers day

Mother's Day in the United States was first proclaimed in 1870 in Boston by Julia Ward Howe's Mother's Day Proclamation, and Howe called for it to be observed each year nationally in 1872. As originally envisioned, Howe's "Mother's Day" was a call for pacifism and disarmament by women. Early "Mother's Day" was mostly marked by women's peace groups. A common early activity was the meeting of groups of mothers whose sons had fought or died on opposite sides of the American Civil War.
The first known observance of Mother's Day in the U.S. occurred in Albion, Michigan on 13 May 1877, the second Sunday of the month. According to local legend, Albion pioneer, Juliet Calhoun Blakeley, stepped up to complete the sermon of the Rev. Myron Daughterty, who was distraught because an anti-temperance group had forced his son and two other temperance advocates to spend the night in a saloon and become publicly drunk. In the pulpit, Blakeley called on other mothers to join her. Blakeley's two sons, both travelling salesmen, were so moved that they vowed to return each year to pay tribute to her and embarked on a campaign to urge their business contacts to do likewise. At their urging, in the early 1880s, the Methodist Episcopal Church in Albion set aside the second Sunday in May to recognize the special contributions of mothers.
n 1907 Mother's Day was first celebrated in a small private way by Anna Jarvis in Grafton, West Virginia, to commemorate the anniversary of her mother's death two years earlier on 9 May 1905. Jarvis's mother, also named Anna Jarvis, had been active in Mother's Day campaigns for peace and worker's safety and health. The younger Jarvis launched a quest to get wider recognition of Mother's Day. The celebration organized by Jarvis on 10 May 1908 involved 407 children with their mothers at the Andrew's Methodist Episcopal Church in Grafton (this church is now the International Mother's Day Shrine). Grafton, West Virginia is the place recognized as the birthplace of Mother's Day. The following campaign to recognize Mother's Day was financed by clothing merchant John Wanamaker. As the custom of Mother's Day spread, the emphasis shifted from the pacificism and reform movements to a general appreciation of mothers. The first official recognition of the holiday was by West Virginia in 1910. A proclamation designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day was signed by U.S. president Woodrow Wilson on 14 May 1914.
A tradition calls for the wearing of carnations on Mother's Day—a red one if one's mother is alive, white if she has died, and pink if one is not certain.
From Wikipedia

maid to order....

ever worked as a hotel maid how about a motel maid it is one job that sucks big time the tourists that you see walking around your town commenting on how beautiful your city is and being polite to you become different people once they get back to their rooms they seem to think that the maid is their moma or slave ''sometimes the two words are interchangable '' they cant seem to be able to clean up behind them selves i knew my job was to clean rooms but used comdoms on the bed and pads on the floor is a little too much and with girl scouts it gets worse popcorn and candy wrappers all over the place and theres a trash basket in every room you want to say ''do you do this at home ''but you dont want to ruin your chances of getting that rare tip and tips are few and far between its a lot of work of makeing beds scrubbing toilets and flipping matresses and returning expensive jewelry for a pat on the back ''gooood girl good girl''. i even had a celebrity once i thought whoa i gonna get paid today. it didnt happen. he,s a comedian so i guess he was being funny i saw him on tv later and i thought you,re not funny steve .h